How to Invite Someone Over (for a juicy time)

Filed under: Charla's Musings - 21 Nov 2008

I wanted to hear my sexy California man say, “Honey, I miss you. I want to be with you. Please come and spend time with me this Thanksgiving?” And being generous, he would add, “I’ll take care of your plane …

When a Relationship Ends

Filed under: Charla's Musings - 06 Nov 2008

Recently a friend in pain came to me for help. She was suffering from ending a love relationship. I got to thinking, every intimate relationship I’ve ever had (except the one I’m in now) has ended.  Some with ease, most …

My big O Birthday

Filed under: Charla's Musings - 19 Sep 2008

On the eve of celebrating a birthday, one easily becomes introspective and even a little somber.  Birthdays, especially the decade ones, are milestones to measure how we are moving away or towards our life’s purpose.

I’ve noticed how my work in …

Vacations are Great for Flirting

Filed under: Charla's Musings - 15 Jul 2008

I’m starting this blog just as I head out on vacation. Here’s how I plan to turn a humorless airport scene into an adventure.  I’m going to flirt–with whoever and whenever I choose.  Why?  Because I can.  And so can …

The Kissing Game: Taking Turns at the Lead

Filed under: Charla's Musings - 15 Jul 2008

If you’d like to spend a great 30 minutes with …